SKINNY VS FLESHY

Look, read and understand me title. These two words bring two different meanings. And no, I'm not going to compare those two. However, let me just reveal to you how girls define skinny and fleshy.

For them SKINNY people, you would always hear these comments:

Oh gosh she's so pretty

Damn she hot!

I hate her i want her body

FLESHY:

*laughing* Look at her bulging tummy

That excess fat on her, it's hideous

SHE'S FAT and UGLY

I'm from the female clan too, but I'm not too proud of these thoughts. I'll do some justice to both sides. Yeah, of course everyone loves to see the ones with great lookin' bodyhhh, but does that really matter? It really is a girl's thing; even I would have these comments carved in my head when I do my usual people watching. It's nature okay. But I must say, it's not nice.

I was watching the first part of the Victoria's Secret Fashion show and Adriana Lima was walking down the runway with her rockin' body, sexy and perfectly toned top to bottom. Dang, how I wished i own that body! To make things worse, I was eating two pieces of fried chicken at the time-I FELT FATTER than ever. Not to mention how envious I was looking at Keira Knightley in Pride and Prejudice, she's tall and lean and super GORGEOUS! Okay, you must be thinking, how shallow.....i'm totally being frank, i criticize myself for these irrational thoughts.

You think it's easy being skinny? Not when you have family members coming to you endlessly poking and pinching your arm asking, WHY ARE YOU SO SKINNY? The pain i have to go through being pinched. Heh. At least it won't hurt as much if I've got abit more flesh. They would start giving nicknames too, and no, I don't like it. It is funny though. Cicak kubin, si kurus, or sayuh. Sayuh refers to thin in Bidayuh. My mum would tell me to take Vitamin C, Cod Liver Oil(ultimate yuck) and so forth. Well, I HATE PILLS. That's why I refuse to eat medicine or even see doctors. They'll just end up giving me paracetamol. Okay, that has nothing to do with what I'm talking about. Ahem.

Darling sisters MARCEILIA MANCINI & MELISSA SALLY and every girl out there please take note of this:

I'd like to think that personality brings more beauty to a person compared to physical attributes. And that definitely lasts longer, all your life I believe. I look up to those who can carry themselves well, wherever whenever. For instance, well the closest one I can think of would be my younger sisters. Like Ceilia, she's always complaining that she's fat and all those crap-and i would be telling her constantly, CEILIA YOU ARE NOT FAT. She's neither skinny nor she is fat. She's JUST ABOUT THE RIGHT SIZE. perfect. There's one thing she always forgets-how her positive vibe and the fun in her makes her more attractive than ever. The loveliest young lady ever seen when she starts singing and dancing to her favourite songs or when she fidgets and goes blushing after doing something silly. Lisa-she's chubby and she's been in that size since she's little. Despite of her size, she's still the cutest and most adorable person to me. She never really took notice of what people thought of her, as long as she's happy.

THE REMEDY TO THIS ILLNESS:

1. Be CONFIDENT

Walk that walk, talk that talk! Be bold, and forget about what people think about you. What you think of yourself is what that matters, because only you know yourself best. Look up and walk straight when you are in the streets, be in control and do not appear arrogant-let that strong aura you are releasing make heads turn and lips whisper.

2. ACCEPT YOUR OWN FLAWS

No one's perfect, you know. Strengths and weaknesses. Accepting how you are makes you strong, unbeatable and it is a sign of respect to yourself. It is how you embrace your strengths and how you manage your weaknesses. Nothing can make people respect you more when you pick yourself up and start walking again after you fall. If you do not love yourself as you are, how do you suppose someone else to?

3. THINK POSITIVE

There's more to life than thinking about being skinny and fear of being fatt! So get over it.

Look at Megan Fox, she's got flesh and yeah, them boys ADORE her. America Ferrera-she's beautiful! Tyra Banks, she's a top model!

So girls, WAKE UP! :) Plus, we girls can do better than that, now who's with me?

P/s: Ladies, you are just beautiful being the way you are. Forget those jerks and blind people!